"Families are like old quilts. Although they tend to unravel at times each can be stitched back together with love."

For most, our Weddings are one of the happiest days of our lives. Some hate the planning and some love it, but one thing is always the same...everyone wants to remember their special day and everyone wants their wedding to reflect who they are. I was one of the bride's who enjoyed the process of planning her our wedding. As a result, our bank account dwindled as our my bridal magazine collection grew, and hours were spent tearing out pages of ideas and color schemes. There were just too many choices. Although I liked a lot of the choices, some just did not reflect who we were....I wanted something more personal.
The wheels in my head started to turn, and the ideas started coming. I really liked the idea of people signing a frame, but EVERYONE was doing that...I wanted to be unique. The wheels started to turn again as I started thinking about what I could make. No ideas came. The wheels started to turn again as I went through every family member and their talents. Then it came to me! My grandma makes beautiful quilts. She quilted me the most beautiful one for my college graduation and it meant so much to me. You just know how much time goes into making one and you know its made with love. I gave her my color scheme and asked her if she would create a small quilt for me with space for the guests to write a message to the newlyweds. Once again, she created the most beautiful quilt and it was more than I could have ever dreamed for. It sits at the end of our bed on a trunk that has all our wedding mementos in them. It was the perfect solution to accomplish all my goals... I personalized an aspect of our wedding, created a great way to remember our special day and our guests, it was unique, and it was beautiful.
I was not a quilter so don't fret if you like the idea, but don't have the talent. Please don't try to learn at the same time you are planning a wedding...you'll go crazy! There are plenty of people out there who will create a quilt for you. Check your fabric stores, online, etc. On a side note, you do use a special fabric pen and then set it with heat. Once again, check your fabric or quilting store or look online. I ended up ordering them online in order to get the colors that I wanted.
And don't think this idea is only for weddings! This would be great for baby showers...have it made to match the child's room and have the guests write a message or blessing for the baby. They will get to keep this the rest of their lives and maybe even pass it down to their children. Or how about high school and college graduations? Bar Mitzvahs? Christenings? Birthdays? The list goes on and on. Just use this to spark your imagination and creativity!
Be inspired, get creative, and have fun!